She Wears Armor ┃Christian Divorce, Domestic Violence, Narcissism, Personality Disorders, Community

Are you confused and feeling like you’re not in control of your own life because your husband is isolating you from everyone? Does the thought of escaping your marriage leave you feeling guilty and ashamed even though you are no longer safe? Are you in the process of divorce and you have no idea what your parental or financial rights are? Welcome sister, to She Wears Armor! This podcast is dedicated to growing a safe community of Christian women who encourage and build one another up! Lean in as I teach you practical strategies to navigate your high conflict divorce and show you ways to cope with your current situation, as well as prepare for your future personal relationships and finances. Hey y’all! I’m Heather Laughter, a wife, momma to 6, Jesus lover, and advocate at heart. I had my own traumatizing journey with a narcissistic sociopath and ended up in a family court system that was scary, confusing, and overwhelming. I was totally alone, hours from family and had no friends because I had been isolated from everyone. It took me about 7 times to actually leave my abuser for good. Eventually I began my work as a family law paralegal which allowed me to walk others through the same broken system while gaining valuable inside information. And now, God has led me to coach you, because I understand the pain, uncertainty, and struggles you are facing as a victim of high-conflict divorce. I want to share with you what I have learned about being part of a loving community, being resilient and finding true healing through Jesus after surviving an abusive relationship. If you are ready for valuable insights to the inner workings of the flawed divorce system, gain a healthy community of support and encouragement, and be equipped with healthy coping strategies with a Christian perspective that will give you the relief you are looking for, join me on this journey of healing, recovery, and faith. Together, we’ll navigate the challenges, find strength in our shared experiences, and emerge victorious, wearing God’s armor that empowers us to face life’s battles with resilience and grace. Welcome to a community where you are seen, heard, and supported. Put down your shame and take up your shield, it’s time for freedom!

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3 days ago

Have you endured the emotional turmoil of a 🚩narcissistic 🚩relationship 🚩? Are you 👀 seeking a  path to healing and restoration through ✝️ faith? If you answered ✅ "yes" to either of those questions, then join me on today’s 🎙️ episode of 🛡️ "She Wears Armor," 🛡️ the Christian podcast dedicated to 💪🏼 empowering women like you. 
In my upcoming episode, titled "Healing With Scripture After Surviving Narcissistic Abuse," we'll dive deep into the transformative power of God's Word. Discover comforting and uplifting 📖 scriptures that offer hope, strength, and peace. Learn practical steps to incorporate these verses into your daily life, helping you rebuild your spirit and regain your sense of self-worth.
Don't miss this empowering episode. Subscribe and join me on 🛡️ "She Wears Armor," 🛡️ where we turn to ✝️ faith to overcome life's toughest battles!
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth 
Bible Verses Used in This Episode:
Isaiah 40:31,"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." 
Psalm 147:3 "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."
Psalm 34:18 "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
Isaiah 41:10 "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
Matthew 11:28-30 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
Psalm 139:14 "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Ephesians 4:31-32 "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." 
Ephesians 2:10 "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." 
1 Peter 2:9 "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light."
Romans 8:38-39 “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Isaiah 61:3 "To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair. In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the Lord has planted for his own glory."
Psalm 46:1"God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble."
Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." 
Isaiah 41:10, "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God." 
Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
James 1:22 reminds us to be "doers of the word, and not hearers only."
2 Corinthians 5:21 “For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God”
Hebrews 9:22 “Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins".
 
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Contact me: hlaughtercoaching@gmail.com
 

Sunday Jun 16, 2024

Are you preparing to face your ex in divorce court 💔 and feeling overwhelmed? Join me in today’s empowering episode of  🛡️ "She Wears Armor" 🛡️ as I help you navigate the emotional and spiritual challenges of your high-conflict divorce. Discover how to stand firm in your faith ✝️, communicate effectively 🗣️, and document  ✍🏻 everything properly so that you can show up with unwavering confidence ✨. 
Learn practical strategies rooted in Christian ✝️ principles that will help you maintain your peace and protect your heart  during this difficult season. Whether you're in the midst of the storm or supporting someone who is, this❤️ episode is packed with the wisdom and encouragement you need.
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #ChristianPodcast #DivorceSupport #FaithandConfidence #SpiritualStrength
Bible Verses Used in This Episode:
Psalm 139:14 "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." 
Proverbs 21:5 "The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty."
Proverbs 15:1 "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
Proverbs 12:15 "The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice." 
Psalm 18:2 "The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold."
Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
Links to My Social Media Accounts:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor
Contact me: hlaughtercoaching@gmail.com

Monday Jun 10, 2024

🎙️ Welcome to 🛡️"She Wears Armor,"🛡️a podcast dedicated to providing strength💪🏼, support🙏🏻, and faith-based guidance ✝️  to women fighting life's toughest battles. I'm your host, Heather, and today we're 🎙️ discussing a 🚨 critical topic for anyone navigating 🧭 the twists and turns of a high conflict divorce 💔: What to Expect When Divorcing a Narcissist and How You Should Respond. We’ll explore practical tips, rooted in faith and wisdom, to help you navigate these challenging interactions with grace and strength. Stay tuned, because knowing what to expect could make all the difference in your journey towards peace and resolution. 🎙️
 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #Divorce #Courtroom
 
✝️ Bible Verses Used in This Episode ✝️
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”  
2 Corinthians 10:5  “We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 
Philipians 4:8 “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. 
Proverbs 4:23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.”
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”
 
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Email: hlaughtercoaching@gmail.com

Monday May 20, 2024

On today’s episode 🎙️ of 🛡️ 'She Wears Armor,'  🛡️ we are going to peek  👀 into the shadowy corners of the mind 🧠. What drives someone to 🚩 control, 🚩 manipulate, or  🚩 hurt others? Is it inherent evil 😈, or is there something more complex at play?  Join me as we explore the intricate world 🌎 of personality disorders. From the volatile 👊🏼 swings of borderline personality disorder to the chilling 🥶 detachment of antisocial behavior, we will uncover the reasoning to your biggest question “Why Does He Treat Me This Way? Could His Abusive Pattern Be Rooted in a Personality Disorder?” 🚨🤔🚨
You don't want to miss today’s episode. It will ✨enlighten✨ you and give you strategies ✍🏻 that may save  ⛑️ your life as we learn that it’s not just about understanding the 'what' but deeply comprehending the 'why'. ⛓️‍💥
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor

Monday May 06, 2024

Are you ever left feeling confused,  🤔 questioning your own reality, and doubting your own sanity? If so, you might be a victim of gaslighting. 🚨
Join me in today’s episode of 🛡️"She Wears Armor" 🛡️ as we uncover the sneaky tactics abusers use to manipulate their victims. From subtle denials to psychological warfare, we'll shine a light on the darkness of gaslighting 🚨 and empower you to recognize the signs 🚩 before it's too late. Don't miss this  👀 eye-opening episode on  🛡️"She Wears Armor."🛡️ 
 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor

Thursday May 02, 2024

🎙️ Welcome to  🛡️ "She Wears Armor," 🛡️  the podcast where we confront the shadows and shine ✨✨ a light on the silent battles.
In today’s episode, we’re peeling back the layers on a form of abuse that’s often hidden in plain sight, yet deeply destructive. 🚨
Imagine being monitored 📺, your freedom chipped away by someone who claims to love you 💔. Where your phone 📲, your friendships 👯👯, even your daily life 🌎, are under constant scrutiny. It’s not just about physical intimidation 👊🏼👊🏼; it’s the psychological  🧠 shackles ⛓️‍💥 that can bind just as tightly.
I hope you will join me in today’s episode🎙️ about 🚩 Coercive Control  🚩 because knowledge isn’t just power 🔋 🧠 🔋—it’s protection ⛑️.
Let’s get this show on the road! 🎪 🚗🎙️
 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
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Thursday Apr 18, 2024

Welcome to Episode 8 of "She Wears Armor," where I equip women with the tools and knowledge they need to navigate life's challenges with strength, grace, and faith. I'm your host, Heather, and today we're diving into a crucial topic: choosing the right family law attorney for high-conflict court cases.
In the midst of legal battles, especially those involving family matters, it's essential to have a skilled advocate by your side. But with so many attorneys out there, how do you find the right one for your unique situation? Today we are going to explore some key considerations.
 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor
 

Thursday Apr 11, 2024

Welcome to She Wears Armor, a podcast dedicated to empowering Christian women to navigate life's challenges with faith and resilience. I'm your host, Heather, and today we're going to talk about a topic that many of us may find daunting: divorce. Whether you're currently going through a divorce, contemplating one, or supporting a friend or loved one through it, I want you to know that you're not alone.
Divorce is a journey that many of us never expect to take, yet find ourselves navigating nonetheless. It's a journey filled with complex emotions, uncertainties, and, at times, a sense of profound loss. But amidst the storm, there is hope. Today, we're going to talk about the importance of creating a support system during this challenging season.
Bible Verses Used in This Episode:
Galatians 6:2 “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
Links to My Social Media Accounts:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor

Thursday Apr 04, 2024

In this episode, we delve into a topic that many women may find themselves grappling with – an upcoming divorce. 
Divorce is a journey marked by complex emotions, challenges, and uncertainties. Whether you're currently navigating the turbulent waters of divorce or offering support to someone who is, this episode is for you. We'll explore practical tips and biblical insights to help you navigate this season with grace and courage.
Today I will help you understand the divorce process better. We'll look at the legal divorce and the emotional divorce and give an overview of how the process flows. I will also give you a ton of tips to help navigate you through this difficult process. I will also share with you my #1 - most important piece of advice I can, coming from my personal experience and my professional experience as a family law paralegal. 
In the midst of pain and uncertainty, I pray that this episode comforts and encourages you and that you learn how God’s promises of love, grace, and redemption can sustain you through even the darkest season of life. 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw 
 
Bible Verses Used in This Episode:
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 
Matthew 19:26 “Jesus looked at them and said, “With man it is impossible, but not with God. For all things are possible with God.”
Luke 1:37 “For nothing will be impossible with God.”
Paul also declared in Romans 8:31, that if God is for us, who can be against us?
Jeremiah 32:17 states that nothing is too hard for the Lord.
Job 42:2 declares that God can do anything. 
2 Corinthians 3:4 Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God.”
Paul says in 2 Corinthians 7:16 “I rejoice, because I have complete confidence in you.”
Galatians 5:10 “I have confidence in the Lord that you will take no other view, and the one who is troubling you will bear the penalty, whoever he is.”
Ephesians 3:12 “in whom we have boldness and access with confidence through our faith in him.”
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor

Thursday Mar 28, 2024

In the 2nd part of my testimony, I conclude my journey from a background of struggle and trauma to finding healing and restoration in my faith. From the hardships of growing up in challenging circumstances to facing traumatic situations head-on, I share my personal testimony of resilience and redemption.
 
#SheWearsArmor #FaithInAction #EmpowermentInChrist #DestructiveMarriages #HighConflictDivorce #HighConflictCoParenting #FamilyLaw #Divorcees #Faith #Community #anxiety #divorcelawyer #divorceattorney #divorcepapers #Christian #personalitydisorders #BPD #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #ASPD #AntisocialPersonalityDisorder #NPD #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HPD #HistrionicPersonalityDisorder #DomesticViolence #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth
Links to My Social Media Accounts:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorcesupportdmhelp
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/she_wears_armor
 

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